7．不请自来。
7.Going where they have not been invited.
8．自吹自擂。
8.Boastfulness
9．嘲笑社会上的穿着规范。
9.Flouting social norms in matters of attire.
10．在不适当时刻打电话。
10.Making calls at inconvenient hours
11．在电话中谈一些别人不想听的无聊话。
11.Holding people on the telephone with needless conversations.
12．对不熟悉的人写一封内容过分亲密的信。
12.Writing letters that are overly familiar to people they hardly know.
13．不管自己了不了解，而任意对任何事情发表意见。
13.Volunteering unsolicited opinions on any subject under the sun,without regard to their knowledge.
14．公然质问他人意见的可靠性。
14.Openly questioning the soundness of others' opinions.
15．以傲慢的态度拒绝他人的要求。
15.Declining requests from others in an arrogant manner.
16．在别人的朋友面前说一些瞧不起他的话。
16.Speaking disparagingly of people in front of their friends.
17．指责和自己意见不同的人。
17.Rebuking people who disagree with them.
18．评论别人的无能力。
18.Commenting on people's disabilities.
19．当着他人的面，指正部后和同事的错误。
19.Correcting subordinates and colleagues in the presence of others.
20．请求别人帮忙被拒绝后心生抱怨。
20.Complaining when requests for favors are refused.
21．利用友谊请求帮助。
21.Presuming upon friendship in asking for favors
22．措词不敬或具有攻击性。
22.Using profane or offensive language
23．当场表示不喜欢。
23.Expressing dislikes at a drop of a hat
24．老是想着不幸或痛苦的事情。
Dwelling on ills or misfortunes
25．对政治或宗教发出抱怨。
25.Complaining about politics or religion
26．表现过亲密的行为。
26.Displaying general overfamiliarity
如果你认为这些都是一些小缺点的话，那就错了。因为 这些缺点的混合速度是非常快的!你愿意和平常就显露出三“种缺点的人交往吗?这些缺点意味着，缺乏感受和细心体谅 的能力，并且会使人对这种人的智慧产生怀疑，任何想要培 养具吸引力个性的人，都应远离这些缺点。
If these faults seem small to you,consider how quickly they compound one another.Would you want to be associated with someone who displayed just three of them regularly? They reveal a lack of perception and careful consideration that undermines one's confidence in another's mental powers. Anyone who desires an attractive personality will avoid them all.
前言
将明确目标运用于工作
组织智囊团
积极心态(PMA)
机智
正义感
情绪的控制
展现信心的力量
付出一点点
培养个人进取心
培养积极心态
百分之二的成功者
加入百分之二俱乐部
如何培养热枕
强化自律
习惯控制
控制你的注意力
激发团队的合作精神
逆境变成一种祝福
创造力是今日世界不可少的能力
有效的身心刺激物
个人盘点
运用自然力量
迅速回顾
《成功的钥匙》正义感 [打印本页]
正义感
A keen Sense of justice
除非你能以公正的态度对待他人，否则即无法培养出吸引入的个性，而且也无法达到明确目标，正义感的一项不可或缺的根本要素，就是“有意的诚实”。
Unless you deal justly with others you cannot hope either to cultivate an attractive personality or to succeed in your definite major purpose.The essential component of a keen sense of justice is a dedication to intentional honesty.
许多人把诚实当做是一种权宜之计，但由于这种诚实态度弹性太大，致使它可能会被扭曲成谋求自己利益的一种手 段。在培养坦白的说话态度时，你就已经在实践有意的诚实 方面，跨出了重要的一步；你必须坚持这种诚实美德，并且无论是否会为你带来立即的好处都要实践它。
Many people are honest for the sake of expediency, but this kind of honesty is so flexible that it can be contorted to serve in any situation which furthers their interests.By cultivating frankness of speech,you are already taking an important step in practicing intentional honesty;you must adhere to that honesty so closely that you practice it under and circumstance,whether or not it promises you any immediate gain.
即使正义感无法使你抓住每一次的获利的机会，但它却 能为你带来下列的实际好处。
Even if a keen sense of justice prevents you from seizing every opportunity, it carries with it a host of practical benefits: